As you're growing up you are at a situation where you are to want to stand out of your culture and just be yourself ,but it isn't that easy because it goes hand in hand with respecting your parents. For me my family is very proud to be a Korean so they want me to be more like them. There is still a way to honor your culture and still can express yourself..
I came to Houston when I was only 5 so I never got really experience to learn or read Korean I grew up to speaking English ,but I still try to talk to my parents in Korean even if I don't use the right terms of words or even sound disrespectful because i don't know the right words to use for instance i'll try to tell my dad would you like some drink or something ,but it comes out as like if i'm talking to my friend and my dad really hates that ,but he understands that i'm not trying to disrespect him.
I became really into the hip-hop culture from the way I dress and how I express my self as a person. My parents till this day they still hate how I dress because its not how they dress where they want me to wear sharp clothes like a clean polo and no ripped pants, but the main one is sagging they truly deep down want to just not want to be seen around me because i look like a "thug" so when it comes to going out with the family I dress the way they want me to ,but I still wear my kicks because my shoes are my identity it sets me apart from any other person.

Another American culture I adopted and embrace is skating, it breaks racial barriers, there is no Asian, Hispanic, Black, only the identity of being branded a skater, and i love the freedom behind that. I can be myself and still represent my family without looking like a stereotypical Asian.